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Then prepare to be unhappy. Seriously, daydreaming about Lia from time to time is all well and good, but obsessing over her (or anyone for that matter) can only hurt you.
Keep Lia in heart and mind, but realize that .71 as a whole is folly, and better yourself as much as you can every day so that if someone special does come along, you are ready for her.
And, just maybe, she'll put red lipstick on her nose. =P