Your perception of bounceme is a more accurate reflection of your mind than your conscious words are.
You're like a guy in a museum who walks over to another guy looking appreciatively at Michaelangelo's David. And starts a conversation thusly,
-"You known, I'm not gay anymore"
-"Excuse me ?"
-"I used to be just like you, you know, but I have a girlfriend and everything now. And you know someone with a girlfriend isn't gay."
-"Well, I'm not gay"
-"Then why are you looking at that penis ?"
-"What penis ?"
-"THAT Penis, right there! God how can you live in such denial? Good grief man, stop being so obsessed about the penis! I used to be like that you know, always obsessing about the penis. But now I have a girlfriend, I'm no longer thinking about penisses all the time. Maybe you should stop thinking about penisses as well."
-"Please go away"
-"It so sad how some people live in such denial. I'm so happy I'm no longer thinking about penis all the time. Did I mention I have a girlfriend now ?"