I'm pretty sure the blame goes to the one that did something before it goes the one that merely let it happen- no fan of MA on this subject, but the disturbed soul that posted 3 pages of crap, sparsed with insults, just so he'd get the warm Christmas feeling of familial strife and hatred certainly wanted this to be.
Well, a merry Crackymas to everybody else, and a crappy one to whoever wanted it to be that crappy. Enjoy it, you worked hard for it