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Do you have to cut specific, predetermined amount to consider yourself a cutter?
Why don't you just cut and hide it from her?

What is wrong with cutting besides it being a taboo?

Cutting is extremely safe compared to, for example, cigarette smoking. Cutting safely results in zero long term harm while 50% of smokers die from smoking-related causes, and even if you don't die it drastically reduces your quality of life. But since cigarettes are a billion dollar business it's completely socially acceptable to smoke 20 times a day, to smoke in public, and to smoke where children can see you smoking. Yet cutting for stress relief brands you as insane. Isn't it funny?