>More often than not, these securities are defined very early on in our lives, in childhood.
Any examples of these, or is it just the standard "need for affection" blahblah kind of thing? Interesting.
>Relationships acan be a bugger to sustain past the first eighteen months
In my [current] experience, even several months can be tough. You know, when all the rosey-eyed shite disappears and you start contemplating things realistically. It's no fun.
>a good way to anticipate a new relationship is to understand what you want from it security-wise, and then be looking for a specific girl who can provide it as you will be fulfilling her secuirty desires by doing so.
In an ideal world there'd be opportunity to analyse and think about things like that, but I think it's rare that anything can come into fruition from it, realistically. Even worse is if you let a girl know that you thought about things like that - anything involving the word "thought" for girls seems to automatically translate to "I DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE :)".
also unrelatedish but the rise in amicable tripfags is quite warming. Or at least it allows there to be open discussions like this involving more than just Rabbit, which is a good thing [that's nothing against him].