>>5

>the first one. Not that I'd be up to that.

Don't be so sure anonymous, the sort of girl who is looking for a protector-figure wants a feeling of security and emotional well-being when she cuddles you, to hear you praise her about little details in her actions and appearances, and... very little else indeed.

>>6
This is actually good advice if you are trawlling for the really needy ones who will pretty much fuck a dog to get the above as a reward. In general though, if you dislike sobbing, shrieking 2.00am fights followed by arson, you might want to start with the relatively more sane girls in your area.

Or - and I think this would really help you get over this low-self esteem where it comes to women - save up and treat yourself to a whole week's worth of decent call-girls. By the Wednesday you'll be fucking with confidence, and the negativity and lingering doubts will have completely disappeared by the weekend, and you can drop this particular worry forever.